Friday, May 11, 2007

Other people know best

Pay attention to what people say when you're going through change. It's hard for you to have an objective perspective about it, so sometimes you need that outsider point of view.

If they go one step beyond just polite support, and are generally happy and excited for you, then you are on the right track. It's really interesting when you end a relationship, and all of the sudden people are happy for you. You can't help but think: "how long ago should I have gotten out?" But, it's not like you can blame one can tell you what to do with your need to figure it out for yourself.

Well...I suppose they could tell you, but it's hard, if not impossible, to listen.

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